Anonymous:
How did you go about entering the sex work industry? And what was it like mentally and emotionally for you when you first started taking clients? I always like to romanticize women in your line of work as these powerful Goddesses that all men pine for, but is it really like that?
Me:

Id say I feel very much like that when I escort.  Perhaps this is why, or because, I enjoy working in the sex-trade.

Mentally and emotionally… I found it quite empowering and very exciting.

Anonymous:
Don't you feel that your extreme expression through clothing and makeup prevents you from being perceived that much more as a 'natural' woman? Not that gothic girls don't exist, but I'm assuming that a more natural look would be more feminine maybe?
Me:

No, I don’t think it does actually. To be honest my clothes are usually very normal. I don’t wear goth attire. The only goth things I do occasionally are: gothic drippiness under my eyes with makeup, wear high fetish heels, wear a collar, wear latex to a club, have black hair and relatively pale skin. I think often my style excuses people from not being able to full interpret my gender. They assume because my style is quite deliberate, that perhaps my looking androgynous also is deliberate.

Also, SO many men choose me as an escort because they find my style very hot. Men definitely love a bit of goth girl to fuck.

Finally, all m2f transsexuals may we be united in the goal that they wish to appear female, but that does not mean they should all sacrifice their style and anything else important to them, hoping normality might make them pass better. I don’t believe normality would make me pass better, and even if it would, I KNOW it would make me less desirable in general. Literally every man I speak to thinks the gothic influenced girl is dead hot.

Anonymous:
How many message u get and do u skim them or read every single one n answer only good ones
Me:

I read all my messages on this site.  I don’t really have a clue how many I get.  something like 10 - 40 per day.  I hate posting rubbish questions and answers all over my blog like this because it’s totally unstimulating and thoroughly uninteresting.  I answer privately a lot of questions that people ask me, but with anon questions, the only way to answer them is to put it on my blog.  The vast majority of anon questions are not worth putting on my blog so the vast majority of them go unanswered.  If people stopped using anon, you’d probably have your questions answered by me.

Syn xx

Anonymous:
Did you ever choose one of the names for yourself. My name is Imogen and I personally I think Aurora is a beautiful name(would suit you), but it's your name so you get to choose!
Me:

For anyone currently unaware, I did change my name, but to none of the previously discussed options.  I am now:

Miss Synestra De Courcy.  (Syn)

Anonymous:
i had bottom surgery done and i regret it completely. sometimes i feel like killing myself because there is absolutely no turning back. dont do it sphi. alll the guys that used to hit me up no longer do because i just have a synthetic vagina... i am really depressed
Me:

I’m sorry to hear that, however, I think you are incredibly ignorant.

Some transsexuals actually truly want to be girls.  Clearly you have a lack of empathy for such people.  You do not know what goes on in my head and you shouldn’t need to to be able to accept that SRS is the right thing for me.  We may both be trans, but that does not mean that the way you think is the same as the way I do.  No two men or woman are mentally identical, so why you would assume all M2F transsexuals are baffles me.

I do not like being trans because I enjoy being a sexual fetish item for men.  I am trans simply because I have to be in order to one day become female.

There are far more men in this world who find me very attractive but are put off fucking me because I have a dick than there are men who are just attracted to me becuase they have a shemale fetish.  I’m certain that over 95% of the guys I have sex with (even being a trans escort!) would also enjoy having sex with me post-op.

Anonymous:
You are aware that most women don't call it s pussy. You sound like a man when you say that, even though your not. Doesn't bottom surgery mean you can't cum or? And lastly what name did you end up picking? Couldn't you stick to Alex and just be Alexandria or Alexandra? Or do you really dislike those names?
Me:

HAHA… goodness.
Do you realise that I am a human being who also exists in this world and observes reality?  Perhaps you think as a cis-female that you must be innately privy to things I am not? 
Only men say pussy?  That is such nonsense. 

Have you conducted some sort of poll of men and women to ascertain this information? If so, surely due to the lack of your resources you realise that whatever sample population you asked is not very representative of the whole world.  Maybe what you say is true amongst your friends, but in my life I do not believe it to be true at all and my life and geographical location is of no less importance or statistical value than yours.

Personally, I think pussy is probably my favourite word for vagina.  However, different words for vagina exist and although they mean the same thing, they put a different spin on the sentence in which they are used.  For example, if I wanted to convey filthy imagery I might choose the word ‘cunt’ instead.  If I were referring to the female genitals in academic writing I would use ‘vagina’.

To answer the rest of your questions: Yes, if sexual-reassignment surgery is done correctly and well the M2F transsexual is usually sensate and often able to achieve orgasm.  I don’t personally really care about orgasms anyway… I find the topic somewhat boring.  Sex for me is more about a mental gratification and pleasure, as opposed to a physical one.

I have no attachment to my former boy name.  I have not used it for years.  I wanted to pick a new name which I feel represents me better and also I really wanted a rare name.  The whole point of a name is to distinguish and identify and individual, so I do not really know why in our society we have so many people with the same first names.  If I had a child I would pick a really unusual name, so that they were not subconsciously tarred with preconceptions of who they are due to other people with the same first name.  I do not feel Alexandria or Alexandra are particularly rare or suit me that well.  Additionally, I don’t really see the value in clinging to my boy name in such a fashion.  Just… why?

Anonymous:
Do you make okay money being an escort?
Me:

Ummmm

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Looks OK to me.